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BECAUSE MOTHER HAD RELINQUISHED CUSTODY OF THE CHILD TO THE MATERNAL GRANDFATHER FOR MORE THAN 24 MONTHS, THE JUDGE SHOULD HAVE HELD A “BEST INTERESTS OF THE CHILD” HEARING BEFORE RULING ON MOTHER’S PETITION FOR SOLE CUSTODY (SECOND DEPT).

The Second Department, reversing Family Court, determined the maternal grandfather, who had custody of the child for more than 24 months with the consent of mother, demonstrated “extraordinary circumstances’ which warrant a “best interests of the child” hearing before ruling on mother’s petition for custody:

Pursuant to Domestic Relations Law § 72, “an ‘extended disruption of custody’ between the child and the parent ‘shall constitute an extraordinary circumstance'” … . “The statute defines ‘extended disruption of custody’ as including, but not limited to, ‘a prolonged separation of the respondent . . . and the child for at least twenty-four continuous months during which the parent voluntarily relinquished care and control of the child and the child resided in the household of the petitioner grandparent or grandparents'” … . “Where extraordinary circumstances are present, the court must then consider the best interests of the child in awarding custody” … .

… [T]he maternal grandfather sustained his burden of demonstrating the existence of extraordinary circumstances. The evidence at the hearing established a prolonged separation of the subject child from the mother for more than 24 continuous months, during which the mother voluntarily relinquished care and control of the child and the child resided in the household of the maternal grandfather … . Matter of Elisa F. v Daniel D., 2024 NY Slip Op 01306, Second Dept 3-13-24

Practice Point: Here the child, with mother’s consent, was in the custody of the maternal grandfather for more than 24 months before mother brought the petition for sole custody. The maternal grandfather’s custody of the child for mote than 24 months constituted “extraordinary circumstances” warranting a “best interests of the child” hearing before ruling on mother’s petition.

 

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FAMILY COURT DID NOT HAVE SUBJECT MATTER JURISDICTION IN THIS FAMILY OFFENSE CASE BECAUSE THE APPELLANT DID NOT HAVE AN “INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP” WITH THE SUBJECT CHILDREN WITHIN THE MEANING OF FAMILY COURT ACT 812 (SECOND DEPT).

The Second Department, reversing Family Court, determined the court did not have subject matter jurisdiction in this family offense case because the appellant did not have an “intimate relationship” with the subject children within the meaning of Family Court Act 812:

The “Family Court is a court of limited jurisdiction, constrained to exercise only those powers granted to it by the State Constitution or by statute” … . Pursuant to Family Court Act § 812(1), the Family Court’s jurisdiction in family offense proceedings is limited to certain prescribed acts that occur “between spouses or former spouses, or between parent and child or between members of the same family or household” … . “[M]embers of the same family or household” include, among others, “persons who are not related by consanguinity or affinity and who are or have been in an intimate relationship regardless of whether such persons have lived together at any time” … . “Expressly excluded from the ambit of ‘intimate relationship’ are ‘casual acquaintance[s]’ and ‘ordinary fraternization between two individuals in business or social contexts'” … . “Beyond those delineated exclusions, what qualifies as an intimate relationship within the meaning of Family Court Act § 812(1)(e) is determined on a case-by-case basis, and the factors a court may consider include ‘the nature or type of relationship, regardless of whether the relationship is sexual in nature; the frequency of interaction between the persons; and the duration of the relationship'” … .

Here, the appellant and the subject children have no direct relationship, and the appellant was only connected to the subject children through her children, who were the half-siblings of three of the subject children. The appellant and the subject children do not reside together and there was no evidence that they have any direct interaction with each other. Accordingly, there is no “intimate relationship” between the appellant and the subject children within the meaning of Family Court Act § 812(1)(e) … . Matter of Watson v Brown, 2024 NY Slip Op 01191, Second Dept 3-6-24

Practice Point: In order for Family Court to have subject matter jurisdiction over a family offense proceeding, the respondent must have an “intimate relationship” with the victims within the meaning of Family Court Act 812. The criteria for an “intimate relationship,” which was absent here, are explained in some detail.

 

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THE RECORD WAS NOT SUFFICIENT TO CONCLUDE APPELLANT IN THIS FAMILY OFFENSE PROCEEDING VALIDLY WAIVED HIS RIGHT TO COUNSEL; NEW HEARING ORDERED (SECOND DEPT).

The Second Department, reversing Family Court in this family offense proceeding, determined the record was insufficient to conclude the appellant had validly waived his right to counsel:

A party in a Family Court Act article 8 proceeding has the right to be represented by counsel (see Family Ct Act § 262[a][ii] …). That party, however, may waive the right to counsel, provided that the waiver is knowing, voluntary, and intelligent … . To ensure a valid waiver, the court must conduct a “searching inquiry” of that party … . While there is no rigid formula to be followed in such an inquiry, and the approach is a flexible one … , the record must demonstrate that the party “‘was aware of the dangers and disadvantages of proceeding without counsel'” … .

Here, the record is inadequate to demonstrate that the appellant validly waived his right to counsel … . The deprivation of a party’s right to counsel guaranteed by Family Court Act § 262 requires reversal without regard to the merits of the unrepresented party’s position … . Matter of Mendez-Emmanuel v Emmanuel, 2024 NY Slip Op 01180, Second Dept 3-6-24

Practice Point: In a family offense proceeding the respondent has a right to counsel. If the record doesn’t demonstrate a valid waiver of the right to counsel, a new hearing will be ordered.

 

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THE ALLEGATIONS BY THE CHILDREN WERE SUFFICIENTLY CORROBORATED TO SUPPORT A FINDING FATHER COMMITTED DOMESTIC ABUSE AND THEREBY NEGLECTED THE CHILDREN (SECOND DEPT).

The Second Department, reversing Family Court, determined the allegations made by the children about father’s violence against mother were sufficiently corroborated to support a neglect finding against father:

… [A] preponderance of the evidence established that the father neglected the children by perpetrating acts of domestic violence against the mother in their presence … .. The out-of-court statement of the oldest child, Roland M., was sufficiently corroborated. “The out-of-court statements of siblings may properly be used to cross-corroborate one another” … . “However, such out-of-court statements must describe similar incidents in order to sufficiently corroborate the sibling’s out-of-court allegations” … “and be independent from and consistent with the other sibling’s out-of-court statement” (Matter of Ashley G. [Eggar T.], 163 AD3d at 965). Roland M.’s statement was corroborated by the out-of-court statement of his sister, Rosalee M., that she witnessed the father drag the mother out the door and choke her. Roland M.’s statement was also corroborated by the ORT received by the petitioner, which reported that Roland M. called the authorities during the domestic violence incident, that during the incident the father strangled the mother with his hands, that Roland M. had to intervene, and that the father was being charged with strangulation in the second degree … …

… [T]he evidence was sufficient to establish that the father’s acts of domestic violence against the mother in the children’s presence impaired, or created an imminent danger of impairing, the children’s physical, mental, or emotional condition … . Matter of Roland M. (Manuel M.), 2024 NY Slip Op 01011, Second Dept 2-28-24

Practice Point: The issue here was whether the domestic abuse allegations by the children were sufficiently corroborated. The Appellate Division held that they were, giving some insight into what constitutes sufficient corroboration in this context.

 

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FAMILY COURT’S RELIGION-BASED DIRECTIVES IN THIS CUSTODY CASE WERE NOT WITHIN THE “BEST INTERESTS OF A CHILD” CATEGORIES OUTLINED IN THE SEMINAL CASE, ALDOUS V ALDOUS, AND WERE THEREFORE VACATED (THIRD DEPT). ​

The Third Department, reversing (modifying) Family Court, in a full-fledged opinion by Justice Reynolds Fitzgerald, over a partial concurrence and partial dissent, determined Family Court’s directives with respect to religion in this custody case should be vacated:

While a court may consider religion as a factor in determining the best interests of a child in custody disputes, “it alone may not be the determinative factor” (Aldous v Aldous, 99 AD2d 197 …). Additionally, cases that do consider religion as a factor generally fall into three separate categories: (1) when a child has developed actual religious ties to a specific religion and one parent is better able to serve those needs; (2) a religious belief violates a state statute; and (3) when a religious belief poses a threat to the child’s well-being … . This standard, enunciated in 1984, continues to be followed … .

None of the three categories outlined in Aldous are applicable to the case before us. The July 2020 consent order granted the parties joint legal custody with equal parenting time. Notably, no reference is made to religion in the custody order. At the time the petitions were filed, the child was not quite two years old and, as such, not of an age so as to allow him to have developed actual religious ties to a specific religion. Nor does the record reveal that the father’s religious beliefs violated a state statute or threatened the child’s well-being. As a result, Family Court improperly intervened in the parties’ religious dispute … . Thus, the court’s directives to the parties that neither parent shall permit the child to attend religious services or instruction until an agreement between the parties is reached on this issue, to address the issue of religion while participating in court-ordered coparenting counseling, and that a failure to reach an agreement with regard to religion will — after completing the court-ordered number of coparenting sessions — constitute a change in circumstances for purposes of modification, were issued in error and should be vacated. Matter of Joseph XX. v Jah-Rai YY., 2024 NY Slip Op 00950, Third Dept 2-22-24

Practice Point: The religious directives issued by Family Court in this custody case were outside the three “best interests of a child” categories outlined in the controlling case, Aldous v Aldous, i.e., “(1) when a child has developed actual religious ties to a specific religion and one parent is better able to serve those needs; (2) a religious belief violates a state statute; and (3) when a religious belief poses a threat to the child’s well-being.”

 

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PETITIONERS’ MINOR CHILD’S NAME CHANGE AND SEX-DESIGNATION CHANGE COURT RECORDS SHOULD HAVE BEEN PERMANENTLY SEALED PURSUANT TO THE CIVIL RIGHTS LAW (THIRD DEPT). ​

The Third Department, in a full-fledged opinion by Justice Garry, reversing Supreme Court, determined the records of petitioners’ minor child’s name change and sex-designation change should be permanently sealed pursuant to the Civil Rights Law:

Endeavoring to remove barriers, expand protections and simplify the subject process for transgender and nonbinary New Yorkers … , the Gender Recognition Act expressly authorizes individuals to simultaneously petition for a change in sex designation and change of name (see Civil Rights Law § 67 [3]). Notwithstanding the different sealing standards articulated within the subject articles, both provisions expressly recognize an applicant’s transgender status as a ground for sealing the records … . The provisions promote the sealing of name change applications by transgender applicants — on the court’s own initiative, even where such relief is not requested.

… [T]his is for good reason. Despite some progress in our recent past, it remains sadly true, as evidenced by nearly every memorandum in support of the Act, and amply illustrated by the amici in this case, that risk to one’s safety is always present upon public disclosure of one’s status as transgender or otherwise gender nonconforming … . The Legislature recognized that disclosure of such status subjects individuals to the risk of “hate crimes, public ridicule, and random acts of discrimination” … . Courts have also observed this unfortunate reality … . There is no doubt that violence and discrimination against transgender and nonbinary individuals continue to permeate our society at alarming rates … . Matter of Cody VV. (Brandi VV.), 2024 NY Slip Op 00961, Third Dept 2-22-24

Practice Point: Court records reflecting a sex-designation change and a name change should, in most cases, be permanently sealed pursuant to the Civil Rights Law.

 

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RESPONDENT MATERNAL UNCLE IN THIS CUSTODY PROCEEDING DID NOT EFFECTIVELY WAIVE HIS RIGHT TO COUNSEL; ORDER REVERSED (SECOND DEPT).

The Second Department, reversing Family Court in this custody action, determined respondent uncle did not waive his right to counsel:

Here, the maternal uncle had a statutory right to the assistance of counsel because he was a respondent in a child custody proceeding … . Although the record demonstrates that, at an appearance on the petition, the Family Court advised the maternal uncle of his right to retain counsel and his right to request an adjournment, it incorrectly informed him that “non parents in custody cases . . . are not entitled to assigned counsel.” The record also shows that while the maternal uncle indicated his desire to retain counsel and to adjourn the matter, he did not speak when the court and the father’s counsel discussed awarding the father temporary custody of the subject child with no visitation for the maternal uncle, and he exhibited confusion with respect to the purpose of the proceeding … . Under all of these circumstances, it cannot be said that the maternal uncle had a “sufficient awareness of the relevant circumstances and probable consequences” of proceeding without counsel … .

Furthermore, on the adjourned date, the Family Court erred in determining the merits of the father’s petition without first conducting a hearing … . Matter of Huasco v Chimborazo, 2024 NY Slip Op 00767, Second Dept 2-14-24

Practice Point: A respondent in a custody proceeding has a right to counsel. Here respondent did not explicitly waive his right to counsel and the order was reversed.

 

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THE OBVIOUS BIAS OF THE JUDGE IN THIS TERMINATION OF PARENTAL RIGHTS PROCEEDING DEPRIVED MOTHER OF HER RIGHT TO DUE PROCESS OF LAW (FOURTH DEPT). ​

The Fourth Department, reversing Family Court in this termination of parental rights proceeding, determined the bias of the judge deprived mother of due process of law. In another decision issued on February 2, 2024, the Fourth Department criticized the same Family Court judge for abandoning her judicial role and acting as an advocate in a child placement proceeding (Matter of Zyion B …, 2024 NY Slip OP 00550):

… [T]he record demonstrates that Family Court “had a predetermined outcome of the case in mind during the hearing” … . During a break in the hearing testimony, a discussion occurred on the record with regard to a voluntary surrender. When the mother changed her mind and stated that she would not give up her child, the court responded, “Then I’m going to do it.” At that point, the only evidence that had been presented was the direct testimony of one caseworker. The court’s comments, in addition to expressing a preconceived opinion of the case, amounted to a threat that, should the mother continue with the fact-finding hearing, the court would terminate her parental rights … . Those comments were impermissibly coercive (see generally Social Services Law § 383-c [6] [d]). That the court made good on its promise to terminate the mother’s parental rights cannot be tolerated.

The record further demonstrates that the Family Court Judge was annoyed with the mother’s refusal to surrender her parental rights to the child. We are compelled to remind the Family Court Judge “that even difficult or obstreperous litigants are entitled to ‘patient, dignified and courteous’ treatment from the court, and that judges must perform their duties ‘without bias or prejudice’ ” … . Matter of Anthony J. (Siobvan M.), 2024 NY Slip Op 00574, Fourth Dept 2-2-24

Practice Point: Here the judge made it clear she had already decided mother’s parental rights should be terminated at the outset of the hearing. The judge’s bias deprived mother of her right to due process of law.

 

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FAMILY COURT JUDGE CRITICIZED BY THE FOURTH DEPARTMENT FOR ABANDONING HER ROLE AS A JUDGE AND ACTING AS AN ADVOCATE (FOURTH DEPT). ​

Although the appeal was moot, the Fourth Department took the opportunity to criticize the Family Court judge for acting as an advocate in this child placement proceeding:

At the hearing, the Judge “took on the function and appearance of an advocate” by choosing which witnesses to call and “extensively participating in both the direct and cross-examination of . . . witnesses” … , with a clear intention of strengthening the case for removal. For example, she asked a … caseworker whether the mother was “hostile, aggressive, violent or out of control,” and repeated questions to that caseworker using the same or similar phrasing at least 10 times. When the mother’s counsel objected to the Judge’s leading questions of another witness regarding incidents outside the relevant time period, the Judge overruled the objection, stating that “there’s no one else to run the hearing except for me.” She also introduced and admitted several written documents during the mother’s testimony over the objection of the mother’s counsel, and despite the mother’s statement that she could not read and was not familiar with the documents. In short, the Judge “essentially ‘assumed the parties’ traditional role of deciding what evidence to present’ ” while simultaneously acting as the factfinder … and thereby “transgressed the bounds of adjudication and arrogated to [herself] the function of advocate, thus abandoning the impartiality required of [her]” … .

This ” ‘clash in judicial roles,’ ” in which the Judge acted both as an advocate and as the trier of fact, “[a]t the very least . . . created the appearance of impropriety” … , particularly when the Judge aggressively cross-examined the mother regarding topics that were not relevant to the issue of the child’s removal and seemed designed to embarrass and upset the mother … . One such area of cross-examination concerned the fact that the mother had become pregnant several months before the hearing, but had been forced to terminate the pregnancy when it was determined to be ectopic. The Judge repeatedly questioned the mother regarding how many times the mother had engaged in sexual intercourse with the father of the terminated fetus, even though such information does not appear to have been relevant to the issue of the subject child’s placement inasmuch as, inter alia, there was no indication that the man was ever in the subject child’s presence. The Judge also asked the mother baseless questions about whether that man was a pedophile. Matter of Zyion B. (Fredisha B.), 2024 NY Slip Op 00550, Fourth Dept 2-2-24

Practice Point: Here the Fourth Department criticized the Family Court judge for acting as an advocate in this child placement proceeding.

 

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ALLEGATIONS THAT RESPONDENT INSTALLED SOFTWARE ON PETITIONER’S COMPUTER ALLOWING RESPONDENT TO CONTROL THE COMPUTER REMOTELY, AND ALLEGATIONS RESPONDENT MADE PHONE CALLS TO PETITIONER INTENDED TO BE THREATENING, SUFFICIENTLY ALLEGED THE FAMILY OFFENSES OF HARASSMENT AND STALKING (FOURTH DEPT).

The Fourth Department, reversing Family Court, determined the petition sufficiently alleged harassment and stalking family offeses based upon allegations respondent, petitioner’s estranged husband, installed software on petitioner’s computer allowing him to control the computer remotely, and made phone calls to petitioner intended to be threatening:

… [P]etitioner alleged that respondent installed spyware on her Apple laptop computer and that petitioner first noticed in mid-April 2021 that her username had been changed to “Creep” and that all documents related to the divorce proceedings between the parties had been deleted. Petitioner further alleged that, after taking the laptop to a computer store to have the laptop reset, she noticed about a week later that the laptop began showing the matrimonial files, which then disappeared again. Petitioner alleged that respondent was again controlling her laptop remotely. Petitioner also alleged a series of other related incidents. For example, she noticed in late April 2021 that her iPhone password had changed; she received a “spoofed” text message in early May 2021 and she discovered about a day later that respondent had accessed her Dropbox account; and she received another alarming or annoying text message in mid-May 2021 that referred to respondent’s pet name for her. Petitioner thus alleged more than an isolated incident and, upon ” ‘[l]iberally construing the allegations of the [second] family offense petition and giving it the benefit of every possible favorable inference,’ ” we conclude that the second petition alleges acts that, if committed by respondent, would constitute the family offense of harassment in the second degree … . Matter of Dhir v Winslow, 2024 NY Slip Op 00531, Fourth Dept 2-2-24

Practice Point: Remotely controlling petitioner’s computer and making phone calls intended to be threatening may constitute the family offenses of harassment and stalking.

 

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