THE FACT THAT THE CHILD LIVED WITH THE GRANDMOTHER FOR FOUR YEARS WAS AN “EXTRAORDINARY CIRCUMSTANCE” WHICH AFFORDED GRANDMOTHER STANDING TO SEEK CUSTODY (FOURTH DEPT).
The Fourth Department, reversing Family Court, determined grandmother had demonstrated “extraordinary circumstances” such that she had standing to seek custody:
… [T]he grandmother met her burden of demonstrating other extraordinary circumstances with respect to both the mother and the father. The Court of Appeals has explained that “[i]n the absence of ‘surrender, abandonment, persisting neglect, unfitness or other like extraordinary circumstances’, a parent may not be denied custody” … . Consistent with that principle of law, we have determined that “an extended disruption of custody as defined in [the statute] is merely ‘a specific example of extraordinary circumstances’ . . . and the statute was ‘not intended to overrule existing case law relating to third parties obtaining standing in custody cases’ ” … .
In determining whether extraordinary circumstances exist, “[n]o one factor should be viewed in isolation . . . , but rather the ‘analysis must consider the cumulative effect of all issues present in a given case . . . , including, among others, the length of time the child has lived with the nonparent, the quality of that relationship and the length of time the . . . parent allowed such custody to continue without trying to assume the primary parental role’ ” … .
Here, we conclude that there are ” ‘other like extraordinary circumstances’ ” that give the grandmother standing to seek custody of the child … . Extraordinary circumstances arise from the fact that the now-six-year-old child has resided exclusively with the grandmother since she was two years old, the mother was incapable of caring for the child due to mental illness, and the father has not been significantly involved in the child’s life since birth. The father has had limited and sporadic visitation with the child and has never had the child with him overnight. He has not attended school events or medical appointments. Nor has he paid child support to either the mother or the grandmother. Finally, the child is emotionally attached to the grandmother and her half-brother, who has also been raised by the grandmother … . Matter of Morris v Smith, 2025 NY Slip Op 07133, Fourth Dept 12-23-25
Practice Point: Consult this decision for insight into the “extraordinary circumstances” which will afford a nonparent standing to seek custody. Here the fact that the child had resided with grandmother for four years was deemed such an “extraordinary circumstance.”
