FAMILY COURT ERRONEOUSLY DIRECTED SERVICE UPON MOTHER IN THIS MODIFICATION OF CUSTODY PROCEEDING “BY EMAIL” WHICH DOES NOT COMPLY WITH DOMESTIC RELATIONS LAW 75-G; ALLEGATIONS THAT MOTHER DESTROYED EVIDENCE OF SERVICE AND WAS AWARE OF THE PROCEEDINGS ARE IRRELEVANT; THE COURT NEVER ACQUIRED JURISDICTION OVER MOTHER (FIRST DEPT).
The First Department, reversing Family Court, determined the court never acquired jurisdiction over mother in this modification of custody proceeding. Father was directed to serve mother by email and by Initiating international service through the US Central Authority, a method not compliant with Domestic Relations Law 75-g:
That statute requires that notice be given by personal delivery or by any form of mail requesting a receipt and that the court may only direct an alternative form of service upon a finding that “service is impracticable” by personal delivery or by mail. However, the father’s motion papers contained no indication that personal service or service by any form of mail requesting a receipt was “impracticable” (Domestic Relations Law § 75-g[1][c]). Therefore, the Family Court erred in directing service by email and the court never acquired personal jurisdiction over the mother by the email service that was effectuated.
The father claims that the mother was personally served … . However, the record contains no affidavit of service on the mother. The father’s assertion in his brief that the mother destroyed evidence of service does not establish that lawful service was made, as it was his responsibility to prove that service was properly carried out in the first place … . Moreover, the fact that the mother became aware of the proceeding at some point … does not confer jurisdiction if there has not been compliance with the statutorily prescribed methods of service of process … . Matter of John F.B. v Maria U., 2025 NY Slip Op 06905, First Dept 12-11-25
Practice Point: Here father was directed by the court to serve mother by “email” which does not comply with Domestic Relations Law 75-g. The court never acquired jurisdiction over mother, despite her awareness of the proceedings.