MOTHER’S BOYFRIEND, WHO LIVED WITH MOTHER AND DAUGHTER FOR FIVE MONTHS BEFORE ABUSING THE DAUGHTER, MET THE CRITERIA FOR A “PERSON LEGALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CHILD” AND WAS THEREFORE A PROPER PARTY IN THIS ABUSE/NEGLECT PROCEEDING; COMPREHENSIVE TWO-JUSTICE DISSENT (FIRST DEPT).
The First Department, affirming Family Court’s abuse finding against mother’s live-in boyfriend, Robert, over a comprehensive two-justice dissent, determined Roberto met the criteria for “a person legally responsible” for the child, B.F. B.F. alleged Roberto touched her inner thigh and vagina. Both the majority and the dissenters go through the criteria for “a person legally responsible for the child” in great detail:
Family Court conducted a fact-finding hearing over several days. B.F. testified that Roberto lived with her and her mother for approximately five months. She stated that during the time they lived together, she and Roberto would “always talk to each other” and grew “very close.” * * *
B.F.’s mother testified that Roberto moved in a week after they started dating. Roberto came home around 6:00 p.m. and left around 7:00 a.m. for work. Roberto contributed $100 every week for rent, bills, and home expenses. * * *
The court credited the testimony of B.F. and her mother, which established that Roberto resided in the home for five months prior to the abuse.
The determination of whether a particular person has acted as the functional equivalent of a parent is a “fact-intensive inquiry which will vary according to the particular circumstances of each case” … . Factors to consider include “(1) ‘the frequency and nature of the contact,’ (2) ‘the nature and extent of the control exercised by the respondent over the child’s environment,’ (3) ‘the duration of the respondent’s contact with the child,’ and (4) ‘the respondent’s relationship to the child’s parent(s)'” … . These factors “are not meant to be exhaustive, but merely illustrate some of the salient considerations in making an appropriate determination” … . The weight given to each factor depends on the facts and circumstances of the case … . Matter of B.F. v Administration for Children’s Servs., 2025 NY Slip Op 03393, First Dept 6-5-25
Practice Point: Consult this decision for an exhaustive discussion of the criteria for a “person legally responsible for the child” in the context of a neglect or abuse proceeding. Here mother’s boyfriend, who lived with mother and daughter for five months prior to the abuse of the daughter, was deemed to meet the criteria.