MOTHER’S LEAVING THE CHILD WITH THE PETITIONERS, THE CHILD’S BROTHER AND SISTER-IN-LAW, FOR A LITTLE MORE THAN A MONTH DID NOT MEET THE “EXTRAORDINARY CIRCUMSTANCES” STANDARD FOR THE AWARD OF JOINT CUSTODY TO MOTHER AND PETITIONERS (FOURTH DEPT).
The Fourth Department, reversing Family Court, determined the evidence did not support the award of joint custody of the child shared by mother and the child’s brother and sister-in-law (petitioners). The extraordinary circumstances required to award custody to nonparents were not demonstrated. Mother had left the child with the petitioners for a little more than a month before seeking the child’s return:
… [T]he court’s determination to award petitioners joint custody of the child along with herself and the father lacks a sound and substantial basis in the record inasmuch as petitioners failed to establish the existence of extraordinary circumstances. ” ‘[A]s between a parent and a nonparent, the parent has a superior right to custody that cannot be denied unless the nonparent establishes that the parent has relinquished that right because of surrender, abandonment, persisting neglect, unfitness or other like extraordinary circumstances . . . The nonparent has the burden of proving that extraordinary circumstances exist, and until such circumstances are shown, the court does not reach the issue of the best interests of the child’ ” … . “A finding of extraordinary circumstances is rare, and the circumstances must be such that they ‘drastically affect the welfare of the child’ ” … . Such circumstances are not established by a mere showing that the nonparent “could do a better job of raising the child” … . Where a nonparent fails to establish extraordinary circumstances, “the inquiry ends” … .
… We conclude that petitioners failed to meet their burden of establishing that the mother “relinquished her superior right to custody” … . … [T]he mother’s decision to leave the child with petitioners for a little over a month before seeking his return did not amount to the type of prolonged separation that would evidence the mother’s abandonment of the child or her intent to do so … . Matter of Adams v John, 2024 NY Slip Op 02404, Fourth Dept 5-3-24
Practice Point: Here the child’s brother and sister-in-law were awarded joint custody of the child with mother after mother left the child with the petitioners for a little more than a month. The “extraordinary circumstances” standard for the award of custody to nonparents was not met.
